Against all odds

We are struggling through these changes but were not doing it together. I think I'm trying too hard to get it to where I know it can be and you are trying to keep it to where you think it's safe. If we weren't so sensitive about everything and we actually talked about things that we feel as they come up it might be better than what it is right now. You've closed up so I push a little here you pull back a little there and we both get frustrated with the other. You're trying, I see that...I'm trying too. Extreme patience and communication is probably the only way this friendship is going to survive. Let's find the balance together, I know we can.